A great quote

"Life is too short to be taken seriously" Oscar Wilde

Monday, 28 June 2010

The touch

I want to start to today talking to you about touching. If you take a look to the dictionary one of the meanings will say something like that…Touch: to come in contact with. I don´t know if you have realized that usually most of the people don´t touch each other and less if they don´t know each other. I just have to give a walk to see that ,and even some of them don´t make eye contact to each other. And if you try to do it, most people would avoid your look as “hey what are you doing, you make me feel uncomfortable”. Actually, most people are talking to each other but not seeing each other. It is sad in a certain way, we are missing something so good, the joy of being touch. Imagine... what our society is getting to... when they are some people on the streets offering free hugs and people do enjoy a lot these hugs from strangers, they do laugh, smile, feel happy after that hug. ( By the way, it is feels great…I tested it:) so if you get the chance, go and give them a hug.)  What is it telling us? I think it is telling us that our society is avoiding this part of the human being which makes us feel instead of think. The society is killing the feeling and overvalue the thinking, both part are equal needed in the human being. Out there… there are a lot of people who don´t know how to touch and even some of them don´t feel ok with the touching thing or are scared about it because they haven´t been introduce to this behavior since they were little babies. Ohh it is a pity to see how scared we tend to be with the real to come in contact with.
Actually, I am a very touching person and I love to make eye contact. I think it is another way of communication, so much deeper and connected with the unconscious mind. And I love when I do some real touch with people, it is one of best feelings…so hey join to the touching people club;) it is free entry!!!!

Let it flow;)

Tuesday, 15 June 2010

The suitcase

Today I did wake up with a headache which got worse after I read my email, sure cos
my unconscious mind is trying to tell me something but...today I am not quite open to
listen to it. Anyway, I want to talk to you about shoulds today, yeah, u know... this little things that everyday we say to ourselves that we have to do. Even though we don´t feel quite ok doing it but...if we are not doing it ...something inside says to us "hey, u should do it, it is the right thing" so at the end, we decide that it is better follow our shoulds in order to feel us less guilty. These shoulds have been planted in our minds since we were little babys by our parents, teachers, society, etc. and sometimes it can help us to fit in. But I was wondering what would it happen if we decide to change shoulds for things I want. I think everything would be smoother, easier, of course for us, but not for the rest of people. Actually, we limit ourselves everyday acting the most of time as we should, we are killing our spontaneous way of acting. It is like to try to put our body into a suitcase as the little chinese guy did in the movie Ocean´s Eleven, not very confortable, isn´t it??
In my particular case, I have to tell you that I am trying everyday my best to do not get myself into a suitcase, just to carry one if I want to travel;)
let it flow;)